The Chief Psychology Officer
Exploring the topics of workplace psychology and conscious leadership. Amanda is an award-winning Chartered Psychologist, with vast amounts of experience in talent strategy, resilience, facilitation, development and executive coaching. A Fellow of the Association for Business Psychology and an Associate Fellow of the Division of Occupational Psychology within the British Psychological Society (BPS), Amanda is also a Chartered Scientist. Amanda is a founder CEO of Zircon and is an expert in leadership in crisis, resilience and has led a number of research papers on the subject; most recently Psychological Safety in 2022 and Resilience and Decision-making in 2020. With over 20 years’ experience on aligning businesses’ talent strategy with their organizational strategy and objectives, Amanda has had a significant impact on the talent and HR strategies of many global organizations, and on the lives of many significant and prominent leaders in industry. Dr Amanda Potter can be contacted on LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/amandapotterzircon www.theCPO.co.uk
The Chief Psychology Officer
Ep42 Finding your Self-Compassion
What does it mean to have Self-Compassion, why is it important? How can we practice self-compassion and what is the impact of this on how we interact and engage with family, friends and colleagues? We look at the research from the most prolific self-compassion author Dr Kristin Neff and her look at Fierce and Tender Self-Compassion and the role of each for helping us to extend compassion and understanding towards oneself in times of suffering or perceived failure, rather than harsh self-criticism or judgment. Why are some people self-critical or prone to self-pity, and how can we help them to move towards having more constructive, kind, yet challenging self-talk?
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For more information about the BeTalent suite of tools and platform as mentioned in this podcast please contact Amanda via email: TheCPO@zircon-mc.co.uk.
Timestamps
Self-Compassion
· 00:00 – Introduction to Self-Compassion
· 01:06 – I’m no good at this; you all must suffer!
· 02:18 – Defining Self-Compassion
· 03:21 – We can’t shout at children anymore?
· 04:20 – Talking to ourselves
· 04:49 – I’m my own best friend… except on LinkedIn
My, Myself and the Confidence Machine
· 06:07 – The way we were…
· 07:01 – Use your words (just the right ones)
· 08:10 – Conversations with Children
· 09:03 – Pessimism: a Great British trait
· 11:12 – Learn to appreciate yourself
· 11:54 – Self-pity
· 12:22 – A weighty issue
· 15:21 – The gym revolution
The lessons from the past
· 16:28 – Fierce Compassion v. Tenderness
· 16:56 – Is it a man or a woman thing?
· 19:03 – 3 aspects of Self-Compassion
· 20:27 – Seeing what is inside ourselves…
· 22:08 – All it takes is one little change
· 23:19 – Tell me about your childhood
· 24:12 – I am strong you Dirty Mother Pucker!
· 26:30 – Success through osmosis
The Old Curiosity Shop
· 28:34 – A botched dinner, or a learning experience?
· 30:31 – Healthy Habits revisited
· 31:45 – 4 steps to turn things around
· 33:39 – Our triggers
· 34:51 – Gilberts model
· 36:14 – Where can I find out more?
· 36:34 – The end.
Episodes are available here https://www.thecpo.co.uk/
To follow Zircon on LinkedIn and to be first to hear about podcasts, publications and news, please like and follow us: https://www.linkedin.com/company/zircon-consulting-ltd/
To access the research white papers mentioned in this and other podcasts, please go to: https://zircon-mc.co.uk/zircon-white-papers.php
For more information about the BeTalent suite of tools and platform please contact: TheCPO@zircon-mc.co.uk