The Chief Psychology Officer

Ep12 How to Have Courageous Conversations

August 08, 2022 Dr Amanda Potter CPsychol Season 1 Episode 12
The Chief Psychology Officer
Ep12 How to Have Courageous Conversations
Show Notes

We all have to have difficult conversations from time to time and some of these can be particularly challenging. What can we do to have more courageous conversations? In this episode, the Chief Psychology Officer explores how to navigate through uncomfortable topics with confidence, honesty and kindness and the impact avoiding these conversations can have on Psychological Safety.

Amanda will look at different psychological theories, the latest research findings and share her insights from her work with organisations and individuals. She will also share some practical tips for delivering effective feedback and discuss different techniques for managing emotions from a neuroscience perspective.

In this episode, Amanda is being interviewed by Angela Malik.

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Timestamps

How to have Courageous Conversations

·       00:00 – Introduction to (Courageous) Conversations with Friends

·       01:13 – What is a Courageous Conversation?

·       02:23 – Why is this so important?

·       03:07 – Hyper-focusing

Breaking barriers, not bad

·       04:11 – Psychological blockers

·       04:26 – Bystander Apathy

·       06:03 – Imposter Syndrome revisited

·       07:32 – External Locus of Control revisited

·       08:01 – Internal Locus of Control revisited

·       08:30 – I need control

·       10:09 – Signs of discomfort

·       10:19 – Micro-assessments

·       11:16 – Link between Courageous Conversation & Psychological Safety

The real world explained…

·       12:19 – €1 Billion in product damage!

·       13:12 – It’s not just about people, it’s also the business

·       14:24 – Psychologists aren’t immune to risks of unsafe environments

·       16:00 – Improving Communication

·       16:54 – Times when courage is needed

·       17:14 – Setting Goals & Objectives

·       17:22 – Establishing Trust

·       18:16 – Practice makes perfect

·       19:27 – It can happen to anyone

Bring on the Neuroscience!

·       20:39 – Neuroscience! What happens…

·       22:43 – Negativity Bias

·       25:22 – How to deliver difficult messages in an accepting way

Creating Courageous Conversations & QBID

·       26:58 – Prepare!

·       27:17 – Manage your own emotions

·       27:48 – Do you like role play?

·       28:39 – Be yourself

·       29:05 – QBID

·       30:42 – Respect, respect, respect

·       33:58 – Enhancing what we already have

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